Overhead wisdom.
Walking out of my building on a small alley street in the North end of La Mission I found two tanned and grizzled men outside my door. One was standing upright. One was leaning as far to the right as one can lean before one falls. Both had relatively groomed Mission style beards, bottles in brown paper bags and multiple layers of what may have once been khaki colored clothing as well as some red flannel. Probably in their later 40s, but that was hard to tell. Judging from the shopping cart parked near by I am going to hazard a guess that they were homeless. From the orderliness of their cart and the confidence of their chatter I would also guess they were good at being homeless; and had made some choices along the way that brought them to where they were that they were not going to abandon anytime soon. Both in the long run, and the short. They had chosen to be be stink breath and ass drunk outside my door on a it-is-so-hot-I-can’t-believe-it-is-July-in-SF day – and that choice wasn’t changing anytime soon. In the long run…
Vertical: (standing in the sun) “Shade is better to rest on a hot day. Specilly when your drunk. Don’t loose some much water.”
Sideways: “Right here.” (lies down under the tree) “I have lost 6 pounds.”
Vertical: “How do you know?”
Sideways: “When I went to the hospital I weighed 153. When I left the place I weighed 147.”
They both laugh and laugh and laugh. They see me,
Both: “That’s a nice green bike, honey.”
The end.
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Walking down Valencia in front of two guys I learned some serial dating tips. This was a gay boy conversation, but I think perhaps the rules apply to dating between all gender types.
1. Go on at least 2 dates a week.
2. Utilize all the dating sites possible, even though they all suck.
3. Meet all the people all your friends try to set you up with and then some.
4. If you make it to a 4th date with one of boys (or girls) make it exclusive with that person. If on the 5th or 6th date or further on down the road that is not working out go back to steps 1-3.
5. Until the 4th date happens with someone you can easily be on a first date with one person, a third with another and a second with a yet another etc….all in one week.
6. Note cards (or something) with a few details about the people and including last names in your phone are good ideas, because sometimes people have the same first name.
These things worked for guy 1 who has now found The One, and is arms waving lips pursing happy. Guy two is still in phase one.
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Walking up 18th street I saw a girl in her late teens in tight blue sweatpants and long blonde pony tail surrounded by a group of awkward teenage boys in baseball hats outside a cafe. Looked like a school field trip. The rest of the class, mostly girls were seated nearby. She smiled at them stood up tall stretched her arms out to push them into a wider circle and quickly with silent and strong grace nearly kicked one of them with a ballet kick. With her leg still lifted up standing calmly on the toes of her other foot she says, “Ballet can be deadly.”
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On 24th street I learned that ducks dressed in tu-tus still need to listen when they are spoken to, even if their friends (the frog in rain boots and the princess) run off down the street. And, also that even witches with pointy hats need to have lunch before they can get ice cream.
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I love life in La Mission.
always.